Rhushabh + Kristin

Kristin's and Rhushabh's first encounter was brief and took place at a college party. Kristin remembers Rushabh was dressed up like a spanish flamenco dancer.

Their first meaningful connection didn't happen until December of 2009. Kristin was out at Cosmo with another guy. Somehow, Rushabh and Kristin started talking and making jokes. After that night, they stayed in touch via mutual friends.

Their first date was in March of 2010 at an Italian restaurant. About that date, Kristin told me, “Rushabh was so nervous. He didn’t let me say one word. He talked the entire time. It was literally the worst date I’ve ever been on. …But I knew everything about him by the end of the date.”

It was a friend who convinced Kristin to go on one more date. This time to the zoo, where they had a great time.

In the ensuing months, they played tennis, walked at Piedmont park, cooked dinners, and Kristin discovered Rushabh’s obsession with football. And in the ensuing years, they explored important questions, shared goals and dreams, and eventually they began to be able to see one another as a partner. And then in May of 2013, while Kristin was shopping at TJ Maxx, Rushabh broke into her place, dressed up her dog Monty in a tie, and put on nice music. When Kristin arrived, she thought there was an intruder, grabbed her dog, and ran out the door. When she came in the second time, she saw Rushabh was on one knee.

And that’s when he asked for her hand in marriage.

photo by Lamar Gee

Josh + Liz

The first glance for these two occurred in March of 2011 at the house party of a mutual friend. Liz was coming back from the embassy in Moscow; Josh, from the embassy in Bulgaria. Josh saw Liz seated from across the room and remembers thinking, “Who is that person?” He walked over to her, flipped an empty chair around, and cornered her in the living room. And they talked.

For six straight hours.

Only when they went back outside to get drinks did they realize…that cops had broken up the party, everything had been moved inside, and everyone was gone.

A few days later, Josh took Liz to what they remember as a “swanky speak-easy.” Josh wore a nice suit, which made Liz think he had a nice job.

In the ensuing months, they went to restaurants, played cribbage and backgammon together, talked about politics, foreign affairs, Congress, the world. And sometimes they read together, not talking at all. 

In the ensuing years, they explored important questions, traveled the world together to places including but not limited to Iceland, Guatemala, Mexico, Belize…Montreal, Paris, Istanbul, Jerusalem, San Francisco, & the Cape. They shared goals and dreams, and eventually they began to be able to see one another as a partner.

And then in September of 2012, Josh replicated his and Liz’s first trip together by traveling to Reykjavík, because as he put it to me, “I just wanted to take Liz back where I saw her the happiest.” One evening, after visiting a geothermal spring and the restaurant Blue Lagoon, Josh pulled out a ring box. And Liz almost fainted…because the box was empty. Because Josh wanted Liz to pick out the ring, which she eventually did, in Paris.  

But it was in Reykjavík, that he asked for her hand in marriage.

…Which is what brings us to today, and to this celebration.

photo by Joy Thigpen